One friend I have recently made has taken to fundraising with a zeal that has really impressed me. I met Caroline in Dublin, during the time that her daughter Seren was in the ICU in Crumlin Children's Hospital in Dublin. Seren was born with a very complex heart condition, which meant that she had already undergone several complex surgeries, despite being a few weeks old. Sadly, one of those surgeries proved too much for her body to handle, and she passed away in January, when she was just over 12 weeks old.
Since then, Caroline has set up the Seren Joan Memorial Fund (https://www.facebook.com/groups/SerenJoanBoylan/) and has connected with a huge amount of people to look for ways to raise money in Seren's memory, all of which goes to Crumlin Children's Hopsital. She recently took part in the mini marathon in Dublin, along with about 90 other women, which raised over 10 grand! TEN GRAND! Wow! Other events that have come on board have been: coffee mornings, a weight loss challenge, a golf tournament and a tropical party night.
I had been mulling over the idea of holding a book swap for ages and Caroline inspired me to make it happen and to use it to raise money for Seren's fund. It was a great night and so far we have raised over 300 Euro. Not exactly matching the 10 thousand from the marathon, but, as they say, every little helps! Holding a Book Swap is really very straightforward, so here's a quick How To Guide in ten steps:
1. The Books. Have your house painted. The inside that is. This will make you take all your books off the bookshelves in order to move them and, once you have stopped sneezing from all the dust, be ruthless in sorting through them. The key questions: 'Am I likely to ever read this again?' 'Has anything from this book stayed with me?' If the answer is no, put the book aside. Accumulate a nice pile of discarded books and wonder what to do with them.
2. The Place. Have a friend who likes reading, with a nice house, with room to hold an event. Preferably with rooms that open out into each other. She will also need a decent sized dining room table and a separate smaller table for children's books. (Garden furniture optional for the children's books.) Be nice to this friend and talk her into holding the Book Swap.
3. The Date. Pick a date. Preferably a weekend evening so people can stay late-ish. You will find that people will browse through the books 3 or 4 times, picking up a few each time, so you want it to be a social occasion where they hang out and relax and keep wandering back to the books with a glass of wine in their hand and crisps nearby. You don't want them to pop in for 5 minutes and leave with only 2 novels and a recipe book. The aim is to have to help them carry their books to the car, as they have so many to take home.
4. The Invitation. Get the word out! Be very clear in your communication on a few key points: Bring books. On the night the books will cost money, set price of: whatever. (We opted for 2 Euro per book.) This is fundraising for this specific charity: whichever.
You can learn from our mistake on this one - we didn't ask folks to RSVP and have been uncertain all week about who would come and therefore unsure of numbers. This has been tricky in terms of catering and planning. It worked out very well in the end, but was stressful in the lead up! As the main point is fundraising - ask folks to bring their book worm friends with them. The invitations need to be welcoming to all, as opposed to excluding people you didn't happen to get an invitation to.
I also sent out a big text, inviting a bunch of other local friends I knew I might not see in time to chat to.
People who can't come can still give you their old books and they can also donate if they want to! But they need to know about both opportunities... Texting, Facebook and chats at the school gate is the way to go here. After the night, I texted loads of people who had expressed an interest but not been able to come. I let them know how much we raised and thanked them for their support and offered them the chance to still give. I got a lot more donations that way, which was terrific. People really are incredibly generous.


7. The Money. Best to be discreet on this one, but not so discreet that people forget to donate! We put a tupperware tub in the middle of the table of books and there was money in it from the start to indicate what its purpose was. People were generally overly generous and gave more than their haul's worth. But I certainly wasn't checking what was put in relative to the books people left with.

Apart from separating children's and adults books, there is no real need to group the books. We did try to put all books by the same author together a bit, or multiple copies of the same book. But by the time 2 or 3 people have looked through the books and passed titles to each other, they will be muddled. And people will be arriving with new books all the time. As long as it's a 4 sided table and there is space to stand and pick up books, people will be able to see them all.
One important thing: it's handy if your nice friend has a nice husband who makes a mellow and appealing playlist for the night; this sets a lovely tone and atmosphere for the night.
If you are a keen reader, it's a brilliant night. You get to recommend books and chat about them and get other people excited about books you have enjoyed. With cake.
9. The Follow Up. It's really important to let folks know how much money you raised. I plan to post a few pictures too, including one of the money being given to Caroline. We used Facebook and Text to thank people and let them know what we raised.
10. The Leftover Books. You need to have a plan beforehand, as you will be left with books at the end of the evening, as really NO ONE wants a book on Wine Tasting or a schooldays copy of As You Like It. We were lucky; our church fete was on the next day, so a load of books went into my car for that. Another friend had a charity collection of books at work later in the week, so she took a box. The rest, we parcelled into a few bags and on Monday we plan to go round all the local charity shops and donate to each of them.
A few final tips:
Have empty bags or boxes to hand for people to bring their books home.
Next time I would consider the possibility of adding DVDs to the list, setting their price slightly higher than the books, I imagine. But don't accept videos, as many charity shops won't accept them any more and you will be stuck with them.
I would not recommend adding clothes to the mix - this is really a very different kind of evening. You don't have to try books or dvds on, and you can go home happy without feeling that you are too fat to read that book you really liked... No mirrors needed either, to see if you would suit that book with the nice cover.
I think it would be an awful lot of work to try to hold this on your own. It has worked really well for me, organising with one other friend each time. You can each play to your strengths and share out the logisitical bits and pieces.
There is an alternative to all of this of course: I could have opted not to have my house painted, given the money that would have cost me to charity, thereby circumventing all of the above. But I wouldn't have any new books...
A fab party by a fab new friend - just raging this mama didnt get to go!
ReplyDeleteNo doubt there'll be a *next time* ;)
Thanks so much to all who participated, donated, and ate!
More info on our fundraising initiatives for Crumlin are available here http://www.cmrf.org/in_memory/page/36331 and here https://www.facebook.com/groups/SerenJoanBoylan/